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07

May

starting a “no more apologies” in chicago | trans grrrl riot

itisrighttorebel:

Here is the website for No More Apologies Chicago

No More Apologies was a conference that started in Toronto this past January by several queer trans women to address the historical exclusion of transgender women from queer cis women spaces. Since then, Ottawa, Canada, has run one by the similar name. This is the first time, to my knowledge, it will be in the US.

When I heard about this conference only a few days before it was put on, I was wow’ed. This is such a central issue inside of queer spaces, and personally it makes me overjoyed to see trans women taking initiative to develop a social justice modeled conference to address our queer sexuality, desirability, and spaces.

There’s a few things that personally I want to make sure we adress in our community. Mind that I am in the process of reaching out to others to form a planning committee at this stage of the game.

1. It will address the intersection of racism and transmisogyny. For those of us that are white, we will seek allyship, responsibility, solidarity, and simply listen. It is essential to make space for POC trans women from day 1.

2. It will be not be trans-normative. All trans female, trans women, transfeminine folks, and people who experience transmisogyny are welcome and who create their own narratives and own paths about themselves, their bodies, and transitions.I do not want a hierarchy of trans women telling other transfeminine folks where to go or what to do in their lives / transitions / whatever.

3. It will be hella hella sexy. I want everyone to feel safe, comfortable, informed, included and happy. To me that’s the sexiest. So that includes:

  • Sex ed workshops!
  • Political discussion!
  • Caucuses!
  • Free barriers / contraceptives!
  • Community resource and sex ed guide for trans women (and our lovers!) including stuff on sex work, disability, and laws in the Chicago area!
  • Free food!
4. There will be hella sexy fundraisers! My personal dream is to get a trans women-focused drag king show on! Monthly events are a must!

Ok, that’s all I can think of for now. But the basic 101 of No More Apologies that I’d like to continue are that cis women and those in the trans female / transfeminine constellation will be able to go. Fundraisers and after party are fine for transmasculine folks and cis dudes to join!

Right now I’m looking at mid-October for the date of the conference. That gives the planning committee enough time to develop funds and resources for the event. I would LOVE to have a housing committee and possible stipend for travelers if we can, but first and formost is to cover the actual event.

It’d also be nice to have a keynote speaker. And perhaps a variety of workshops rather than just one on sex ed.

Ok, I think I may have spoken too much before the planning committee actually meets, but these are just my thoughts to get a center around the idea of this conference.

Post your thoughts below!

queer women friends in detroit—since the chances of something like this ever happening in detroit are almost none due to having almost no queer community here at all, i thought you all might be excited about getting in on the chicago one?

04

May

send cece books!

i know i’ve posted about this before, but you can send cece books in jail and she would love to receive them!  it’s a great thing to do if you’re feeling sad/angry (like i am) and want to direct those feelings somewhere for a second.  it’s also a great thing to do if you’re feeling inspired by cece’s strength and want to thank her for that. (or at least those are the times that i end up sending her books)

she has a list of books she’s interested in reading listed on her website as well as info about her taste in books (i think she has pretty rad taste in books, btw, but that’s totally biased by the fact that her taste in books is kinda similar to my own)

there are some pretty specific instructions about sending her books in jail (like they need to be new paperbacks sent directly from the publisher or from somewhere online like amazon or powell’s) which is all on the website linked above so be careful to follow that.

also be mindful of the fact that her sentencing is in a month (june 4) and she will most likely be moved to a different facility at that point, so check back for an updated mailing address around then.

02

May

prettyqueer:

Dean Spade interviewed by PrettyQueer in the hours immediately after the announcement that CeCe McDonald’s trial had ended abruptly. with a plea agreement.
Read the full interview on PrettyQueer »


i’ve been dealing with a lot of grief and anger over cece’s trial and along with those feelings a lot of questions have been floating around in my mind all day as far as what happened today, what it means for cece, what i can do to continue to support her and a lot of other things—dean spade answers a lot of these questions from the perspective of both someone who was there and someone with a better understanding of the legal aspects of things.
it’s super long, but reading it has helped me with some of my confusion about today and also helped me find some places to try to direct my grief and anger (if i can just stop crying!  maybe trying to direct my grief somewhere is is a job for tomorrow, not today)

prettyqueer:

Dean Spade interviewed by PrettyQueer in the hours immediately after the announcement that CeCe McDonald’s trial had ended abruptly. with a plea agreement.

Read the full interview on PrettyQueer »

i’ve been dealing with a lot of grief and anger over cece’s trial and along with those feelings a lot of questions have been floating around in my mind all day as far as what happened today, what it means for cece, what i can do to continue to support her and a lot of other things—dean spade answers a lot of these questions from the perspective of both someone who was there and someone with a better understanding of the legal aspects of things.

it’s super long, but reading it has helped me with some of my confusion about today and also helped me find some places to try to direct my grief and anger (if i can just stop crying!  maybe trying to direct my grief somewhere is is a job for tomorrow, not today)

Discrimination Against LGBT Jurors Remains Legal

transfeminism:

With the trial of CeCe McDonald in a Minnesota this is a timely piece on the discrimination against trans women by the courts. If trans women aren’t considered fit for jury service, how can we expect a Black trans woman to receive a fair trial by her peers?

Also, in the examples in the article there are also racialized aspect to who is removed from a potential jury because of gender identity and sexual orientation. With overt racial discrimination barred from jury selection, prosecutors have a convenient cover that allows them to target jurors of color and sympathetic Whites based on their being LGBTQ.

This cast serious doubt on the ability of trans women of color, who are situated at the intersection of racism, sexism, cissexism. These are things that need to be factored into why Black, Latina and American Indian trans women are disproportionately targeted for mass incarceration.

There is some problematic language in this article, including the conflation of homosexual/gay with transsexual/transgender and the apparent misgendering of trans women.

The following are excerpts from the article:

“I believe that people who are either transsexuals or transvestites — I don’t know what the proper term is — traditionally are more liberal-minded thinking people, tend to associate more with the defendants because, obviously, they have been either ridiculed before or are feeling in a position of being in a microscope all the time and are outcasts which lends themselves to associating more with the defendant.”

That was part of the reason a California prosecutor gave for removing Christopher Lewis — an African-American potential juror described by the trial judge as a “man dressed as a woman” — from a jury in 2000.

It would have been illegal to remove Lewis based on the fact that she was black, so the judge had to make sure that the prosecutor could articulate a reason other than race.

“Did you excuse Chris Lewis or Christopher Lewis partly … you had
some reason to believe that this individual was a cross-dresser or transvestite?”

“Yes,” replied the prosecutor.

In 2005, a federal court upheld Lewis’ removal, observing that “no federal law” prevents attorneys from removing “cross-dressers or transvestites” from juries.

Lewis’ experience is not unique. Federal courts have consistently declined to prohibit attorneys from openly discriminating against LGBT people during jury selection. And as recently as last year, the U.S. Department of Justice told a panel of judges that it “takes no position” on whether the case law that prohibits attorneys from removing jurors based on race or sex should be extended to cover sexual orientation.

While California has since banned jury discrimination based on sexual orientation, most other states have not.

Minnesota state Sen. Scott Dibble is fighting to change that. He introduced a bill earlier this year that would add sexual orientation and marital status to the list of categories for which jurors cannot be dismissed in his state. Minnesota law currently bars discrimination in jury selection based on race, color, religion, sex, national origin, economic status, or a physical or sensory disability.

Dibble, along with Minnesota LGBT rights activists, says that under Minnesota law, the bill would also protect transgender people.

“This affects peoples lives,” Dibble, who represents Minneapolis, told The American Independent. “LGBT people provide important perspectives in terms of jury duty,” he said.

In 2008, a Massachusetts appellate court declined to overturn a murder conviction after the defendant argued the prosecutor had “improperly used a peremptory challenge to remove a juror who may have been either homosexual or transgendered.”

At the trial, which had taken place seven years earlier, “the prosecutor attempted to challenge the juror for cause because, the prosecutor said, the juror had some ‘identification issues,’ seemed to be a man dressed as a woman, and appeared to have breasts,” according to court documents.

The defense attorney responded, “I see a man who maybe at best I would argue might be a homosexual. And if the Commonwealth’s intention is to challenge on the homosexuals․”

The appellate court explained that after the trial judge denied the challenge for cause, the prosecutor used a peremptory challenge to remove the juror.

The prosecutor disputed the defense’s suggestion that it was engaging in a “pattern” of removing gays from the jury. “I don’t even know of any even homosexuals that have been before us,” said the prosecutor. “This particular gentleman was dressed, in my opinion, like a female and he has breasts and so forth. And, frankly, I was just looking at this from a common sense point of view. This guy has a lot of identification issues.”

In denying the appeal, the appellate court observed, “To date, this court has not considered the question whether the exercise of a peremptory challenge to remove a juror because of his or her sexual orientation or because the juror was transgendered would violate the guarantees of art. 12 [of the Massachusetts Declaration of Rights] or the equal protection clause [of the 14th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution]. Nor, it appears, has any other court.”

The appellate court ruled that defense counsel’s failure to formally object to the challenge during the trial and the “factual ambiguity” surrounding the incident prevented the court from deciding whether sexual orientation and gender identity could be considered in dismissing jurors. “Defense counsel appeared to object to the prosecutor’s supposed use of a peremptory challenge to remove the juror on the basis of homosexuality,” wrote the court, “while the prosecutor seemed clearly to focus on what he perceived to be the transgendered appearance of the juror.”

Thirteen years earlier, prospective juror Steve Grandell had been dismissed from a trial in Hennepin County District Court in Minnesota. The assistant district attorney reportedly used a peremptory challenge to strike Grandell because Grandell appeared to be a man dressed as a woman. In reality, Grandell identified as transgender.

The defense attorney in the case objected to the challenge, but the judge overruled him.

Grandell told the Star Tribune at the time that [s]he thought [s]he was dismissed by the prosecution “not only because of his [her] style but because the case that was being heard involves sexual assault between an adult and a minor.”

Transgender people, [s]he said, “are always lumped in with sexual deviants.”

He[She] told the paper, “I went to jury duty as who I am. I dressed as I always dressed. If I wouldn’t have, I would have been lying. I’d have been taking a step into the closet, and I think that’s a dark and dangerous place.”

Phil Duran of Outfront Minnesota, the state’s largest LGBT advocacy organization, told TAI that the bill pending in Minnesota to outlaw jury discrimination is an important one.

“We believe nobody should be refused the opportunity to serve their community simply because of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or marital status in jury service,” he said. “As numerous Court rules make clear, discrimination in any aspect of our justice system undermines the public’s confidence that a person may have their day in court where their concerns will be heard without prejudice or bias.“

[full article]

why can’t i stop crying today?

oh right, because people suck and i hate everyone and i’m feeling worse and worse about this the more time it has to sink in and i am just so angry right now and all i wanna do is alternating between fighting back against (who?  someone, everyone) in solidarity with cece and all of my sisters and gathering up all my friends and just running away.  i’ve been really hoping (and believing—was that dumb?) that this would go differently and it’s not fair.

fuck everyone

i don’t pray or anything, but my thoughts and my love is with cece and her friends and family right now.  but srsly, fuck every other person.

bored angry: CeCe McDonald just took a plea deal

thespiritwas:

from Dean Spade:

CeCe just took a plea deal—2nd degree manslaughter with a recommended 41 month sentence (actual sentencing hearing will be in a month). Horrifying to watch her forced to recount the events of her attack on the stand, to watch the judge speak to her…

i’m so sad and angry right now.  fuck everyone.   srsly fuck everyone!

like, she’s a badass and an inspiration because she fought back and is not another name that cis people and douchey trans bros can use to make their list longer that one day a year that they care about trans women and she still has a voice and, like, what does it say that people care about trans women when they are dead but let this happen to trans women who survive?

fuck everyone forever!!!

13

Apr

Support grows for CeCe McDonald as trial date nears

Tens of thousands of people across the U.S. and around the world have mobilized to demand the arrest of Trayvon Martin’s killer, George Zimmerman. Because Zimmerman maintains that he acted in self-defense, he has not been arrested by the Sanford, Fla., police department or charged by the prosecutor.


CeCe McDonald

The legal justification of self-defense in the U.S has not worked in the same way for most people of color, women and lesbian/gay/bi/trans people, many of whom survive brutal bigoted attacks and then are arrested and convicted for defending themselves. John White, an African-American father living in Long Island, N.Y., was convicted of murder for protecting his son from an angry white mob in 2006. The New Jersey 7, young Black lesbians who defended themselves against a vicious anti-lesbian attack, were arrested and four of them sentenced to from three-and-a-half to 11 years in prison.

This holds true in the case of Chrishaun “CeCe” McDonald, a 23-year-old African-American trans woman who was attacked by patrons of a Minneapolis tavern on June 5 of last year. While McDonald and her friends were on their way to a nearby grocery store, the patrons assaulted them with racist and anti-LGBT slurs. Many of the vicious remarks were directed at McDonald, as a Black trans woman. All of McDonald’s friends were people of color and youths, while those who attacked them were all white and older.

Desperate for help and covered in blood from having a glass mug smashed in her face, it was McDonald who first approached police arriving on the scene. The police arrested her and to this day have made no arrests against her attackers. And while there is no physical evidence tying her to the stabbing of Dean Schmitz, one of the men who attacked her, McDonald now faces second-degree murder charges.

As McDonald’s April 30 trial date approaches, national outrage has strengthened the political campaign to have the charges dropped.

“Our goal is to deliver a petition with 10,000 signatures on April 24 to Michael Freeman, the Hennepin County attorney, demanding he drop the charges against CeCe,” Billy Navarro Jr., an organizer with the CeCe McDonald Support Committee based in Minneapols, told Workers World. On April 24, McDonald must appear in court for a pre-trial hearing. “Young people from the Trans Youth Support Network have planned a ‘dance party’ protest right in front of Freeman’s office on April 26. [McDonald] is a valued community member, and we want to show that there is support for her not only here but also around the country.”

CeCe ‘a leader and role model’

“CeCe in many ways is a leader and role model. Back when this happened, the newspapers called her a man and only used her birth name. We all know her as CeCe, so it took a few days before the community sprang into action. It has been hard on our community not having her with us,” said Navarro.

McDonald was born in Chicago in 1989 and came out as a trans person at the age of 14. After moving to Minneapolis, she became active in the community, often participating in panels against racism and trans oppression. Talented in fashion design, CeCe had been pursuing her associate’s degree in fashion at a local college for the last two years. She supported herself through a part-time job at a café.

One of McDonald’s most important contributions was taking care of younger LGBT youth. According to Navarro: “She was the one with stable housing and finances, so she took in people younger than her so they wouldn’t end up on the streets. She created a sense of family for them. … Some of those young people were forced to go back to living in hostile, anti-gay family situations or are now surfing from couch to couch.”

Another thing that has been hard for McDonald is that her birth family lives far away. “CeCe is a fighter and is generally so strong, but this is one thing she really gets emotional about,” said Navarro. “She misses her mother and siblings in Chicago so much, and they are really supportive of her. But it is so expensive for them to travel here for her court dates. We are trying to raise money or have miles donated to bring her family here for the trial on April 30.”

Growing national campaign

“Since this whole thing started, we have packed the courtroom, the hallway and rallied outside at every court date,” said Navarro. “The biggest one drew over 100 supporters. We want to have people from all over the Midwest come out for both the pre-trial hearing on April 24 and the first day of trial on April 30.”

The committee is seeking endorsements as well as letters of solidarity to be sent to Freeman from individuals, unions and political groups. Midwest groups such as OutFront Minnesota, the African-American and African Studies Department of the University of Minnesota, the Trans Youth Support Network, the Women’s, Gender and Sexuality Studies Department of Macalester College, the Women’s Prison Book Project and the Wisconsin Bail Out the People Movement have joined the effort.

Nationally, groups like the Transgender Gender Variance Intersex Justice Project, the Transgender Law Center in California and Queers for Economic Justice in New York have called for the charges to be dropped. Trans historian and author Leslie Feinberg has begun a call within the labor movement for labor union activists and unions to send solidarity statements. Support committees and activist groups are raising funds and holding events in Brooklyn and Buffalo, N.Y.; Bloomington, Ind.; Chicago; San Francisco and Oakland, Calif.; and Boston.

“We have gotten pictures from the International Women’s Day march on March 31 in New York City that carried signs about CeCe, and we have even been in touch with activists in Paris who are building support around CeCe’s case,” said Navarro. “Between now and April 30, we need events, fundraisers and to get CeCe’s name out all over the press. We not only want to free CeCe but we want to take a stand against racist transphobic attacks happening all over the country.”

To sign the petition, endorse and organize to free CeCe McDonald, see supportcece.wordpress.com.

this article is really dead-on.  the connection made between reluctance to charge  trayvon martin’s murderer because of self-defense claims and the way that law enforcement did not even stop to breath before charging cece with murder in an actual self defense situation is dead on and super important.

(Source: transfeminism)

miranda bellwether thinks i should be more comfortable talking about the fact that trans women are hot and i think she’s right

so i just finished reading fucking trans women by miranda bellwether and the whole thing has been a really empowering/inspiring/introspective/challenging/educational experience for me and has me full of thoughts and feelings.

there are about a million things it makes me want to write/think/talk about (and i probably will and i probably will read it again and have more stuff to think/talk/write about too).  but right now there’s one thing i really want/need to write about:

i have often felt awkward/talked around the fact that i am really almost exclusively attracted to trans women/amab trans folx (i mean, it’s tons more complicated than that for sure, i’ve totally loved trans and cis people of all genders and the same goes for good sex, but i’m not talking about that now). 

i definitely hint at it and have no problems talking about trans women as being sexy and also have no problem suggesting that 1)  i feel bad about myself when i try to sleep with cis men as well as after i sleep with them, 2) i think trans men (and many other afab trans & genderqueer folx) are douches and want nothing to do with like 90% of them and 3) i feel really creeped out by the way cis women who are attracted to me often act like they have this certain type of entitlement to my body and only care that i’m this generic sensitive trans guy that has nothing to do with who i actually am and so i really feel cautious about sleeping with cis women.  i guess you could easily do the math and deduce that that pretty much leaves trans women…

but the truth is, i’m not attracted to trans women because they are who is left over once you exclude all the insuffrable folx i do not wanna sleep with.  i’m attracted to trans women because i think they are sexy and a big part of my thinking they are sexy is the ways in which they make me feel sexy.  i feel comfortable and un-self-conscious when having sex with trans women in a way that i rarely feel with anyone else.  when i have sex with trans women, i feel more like i’m sexually connecting with another person than just having sex.

i try to regularly give credit to trans women for being my heroes and sisters and teachers and lovers and crushes and friends and best friends and idols because they are.  but then when i talk about who i prefer to sleep with and who i prefer to date, i always feel the need to be more evasive or shy away from the fact that i am really almost exclusively attracted to trans women because i worry that’s going to come off as really really creepy.  i get so creeped out when it feels like someone is only attracted to me because i’m a trans guy and i get intensely worried that talking about how i like to date/fuck/fall in love with trans women will come off as being creepy.

miranda bellwether talks in fucking trans women, though, about this way that partners of trans women will talk around the fact that they are attracted to trans women or take a long time to get to saying that with all these conditions.  and i realized i am guilty of doing that and i don’t want to.  my attraction to trans women isn’t conditional.  it’s not dirty.  it’s not a fetish.    it’s not like i’m just generically attracted to every trans woman ever just because she’s a trans woman with no regard to who she is.  it does not reduce women to their bodies (i mean, i think trans womens’ bodies are beautiful, but i think all types of bodies are beautiful), it goes a lot deeper than bodies, it’s about who inspires me and makes me feel sexy and makes me want to be sexy and who i can have the kind of sex with that goes so deep that i feel it in my soul, not just my body.

so, yeah, trans women are sexy.  i like to date trans women and have sex with trans women and crush on trans women and fall in love with trans women.  thanks, miranda bellwether, for making me feel like it’s okay and even important to say that.  it doesn’t make me creepy and maybe the idea that being attracted to trans women would make me a creep completely plays into the whole transmisogynistic thing where trans women are simultaneously and ridiculously totally hypersexualized and completely desexualized by society and i don’t wanna play into that… so… yeah

04

Apr

transmisogynistic media report on murdered trans woman from detroit local fox affiliate

this article is pretty good and pretty much sums up a lot of the things i feel about coko williams’ murder.

it makes me really mad/sad that another trans woman got murdered in detroit but it also makes me really sad/mad the way they are covering this.

all they can talk about is how bad the neighbourhood where she was found was.  like, it’s detroit, get over it, why don’t you talk about how fucked up it is that this happened and how sad her loss is instead of going on and on about how “gritty” (is that word supposed to make it sound exciting like a movie? cause it’s not a movie) the neighbourhood was (like, are they suggesting that it’s her fault for being in that neighbourhood?  cause that’s what it sounds like to me which isgrossvictim-blaming).

then they keep showing this image of this huge pile of trash on a sidewalk that’s like, 15 or so used condoms and 5 empty liquor bottles and some other trash to show how “gritty” the neighbourhood is but if you really read into it, this is, like, a week’s worth of trash that some guy has collected from off the street.  my neighbourhood is really nice and so not really “gritty” at all and i could probably find 15 condoms and 5 empty liquor bottles in a single afternoon of searching for trash and if i dumped them all on the same square of sidewalk, it would look pretty “gritty”

this is how everyone always talks about detroit and it’s disgusting.  there are totally some sketchy neighbourhoods in detroit for sure, but it’s a real place with real neighbourhoods where real people live.  it’s not some exciting/sad/”gritty” setting of a movie.  it’s not some “forgotten” city with people who don’t matter.  people here matter.

and they just dismissively assume she was a sex worker without actually knowing whether she was a sex worker at all like she wasn’t really a person so her actual story that merits looking into or knowing about or caring about because she was a trans woman in a “gritty” neighbourhood in detroit.

fuck this.

also, if anyone reading this was friends with her, i’m really sorry for your loss and i am mourning with you <3

01

Apr

Odofemi: Here’s (a bit of) how transmisogyny works:Present as a feminine...

odofemi:

Here’s (a bit of) how transmisogyny works:

Present as a feminine woman: “You’re reifying gender stereotypes and making a sick parody of women! Stop raping our identities and supporting patriarchy!”

Present as a masculine or androgynous woman: (actual comment left on my YouTube channel today by a…

bored angry: Hijacking, a Legacy in Many Parts

gcvsa:

I logged on to my computer this morning, and of a whim, I decided to check the tag for “#adrienne rich” here on Tumblr, because I am curious how the wider feminist community is handling the news of her death, since her legacy is so very problematic concerning trans women. I wish I…

this is quite long, but really good and worth reading.  gemma does a great job of talking about why the transsexual empire isn’t just some document from the past that we don’t agree with, but rather a text that is still very much alive in the way it actively hurts people.  it hurt people (real people who i know and care about and you probably know too) today and yesterday and the day before and last week and last summer and every single day.

the fact that gemma is both a trans woman (who has specifically been hurt by the transsexual empire in ways that are not even a little abstract) and someone whose life was changed by adrienne rich’s work provides an important lens to her discussion that i really appreciate

i don’t really think the fact that the person criticizing criticism of adrienne rich is 18 or austrailian has anything to do with anything, ftr, i know some pretty sharp 18 year olds and some pretty sharp austrailians and i also know bigots and narrow-minded folks of all ages and nationalities

29

Mar

erica, inchoate: Adrienne Rich and "Amy Ray Syndrome".

jadepichette:

inchoaterica:

point of fact: Adrienne Rich was a transphobe:

“…Janice Raymond cited Rich in the acknowledgments section of her 1979 book The Transsexual Empire, writing “Adrienne Rich has been a very special friend and critic. She has read the manuscript through all its stages and provided resources,…

Finally someone else saying it. 

i always get kinda irritated with poetry—not because there’s anything inherently wrong with poetry, just because i don’t personally like it—so it’s not like i was a fan of hers anyway, but all of my facebook friends are, like, saying shit to the effect that feminism died with her and stuff… but, like srsly?

i mean, you can totally love and feel touched by someone’s work and not agree with all that they do/say/represent as a person (um, i’m kinda like that with morrissey) and all.  it’s just annoying that people are acting like she was like, the goddess of feminism or something (which is boring to me anyway because how can any one person be the goddess of feminism or whatever?).

28

Mar

she’s condemning planned parenthood now?  lol. didn’t susan g komen try to do that recently and get a whole lot of shit from everyone for it?  didn’t like every conservative anti-choice anti-women asshole do that?

she seems to just make it too easy not to take her seriously as a “feminist”

it’s common knowledge and all, but in case you didn’t know…

cathy brennan is a foul fucking piece of narcissistic, anti-feminist shit and she also has no life.  my theory is that she is actually quite attracted to trans women but is too much of a bigot to handle this and so she indulges this attraction by getting off on saying mean violent things about trans women.  she probably masturbates while she writes all this bullshit.  too bad that when she comes to terms with the fact that trans women are so much more awesome than her, she will have burned all the bridges and there will not be a single trans woman who would even come close enough to her to take a shit on her face, let alone have sex with her.

so i’ve been trying to stay calm about the whole thing and try to focus my attention on showing love to my friends/sisters/heroes who she is targeting (both those specifically targeted & those implicitly targeted as queer & lesbian identified trans women) because i tend to feel like my energy/rage is better spent loving/supporting people hurt by oppressive pieces of shit rather than giving my energy over to those oppressive pieces of shit, but she just reblogged some things i posted about her whole shitstorm with some almost comically petty comments/digs and there are a few little bits of rage that i’m having a lot of trouble turning into love right now.

in an atempt to end on a more positive and loving note:

dear every trans woman targeted and hurt by her fucking bigoted hate, i love you, you are my hero and you are so much better than her. love, jack.